One sperm donor = 150 sons and daughters

Cynthia Daily and her partner used a sperm donor to conceive a baby seven years ago, and they hoped that one day their son would get to know some of his half siblings — an extended family of sorts for modern times.

So Ms. Daily searched a Web-based registry for other children fathered by the same donor and helped to create an online group to track them. Over the years, she watched the number of children in her son’s group grow. And grow.

Today there are 150 children, all conceived with sperm from one donor, in this group of half siblings, and more are on the way. “It’s wild when we see them all together — they all look alike,” said Ms. Daily, 48, a social worker in the Washington area who sometimes vacations with other families in her son’s group.

As more women choose to have babies on their own, and the number of children born through artificial insemination increases, outsize groups of donor siblings are starting to appear. While Ms. Daily’s group is among the largest, many others comprising 50 or more half siblings are cropping up on Web sites and in chat groups, where sperm donors are tagged with unique identifying numbers.

Now, there is growing concern among parents, donors and medical experts about potential negative consequences of having so many children fathered by the same donors, including the possibility that genes for rare diseases could be spread more widely through the population. Some experts are even calling attention to the increased odds of accidental incest between half sisters and half brothers, who often live close to one another…

“These sperm banks are keeping donors anonymous, making women babies and making a lot of money. But nowhere in that formula is doing what’s right for the donor families…” Let’s don’t forget making it more difficult for the average neurotic to sue the donor.

Because there is so much secrecy surrounding sperm and egg donations, Wendy Kramer said, it has been difficult for families of children born via sperm donation to step forward with their concerns. Some heterosexual couples never tell a child that he or she is the product of a sperm donation…

Experts are not certain what it means to a child to discover that he or she is but one of 50 children — or even more. “Experts don’t talk about this when they counsel people dealing with infertility,” Ms. Kramer said. “How do you make connections with so many siblings? What does family mean to these children?

And who cares? Maybe, just maybe, they’re mostly concerned with living their own lives instead of being part of a pseudo-science soap opera.

RTFA to consider the few tidbits of legitimate concern – awash with neurotic fear and trepidation lacking scientific measurement. Exactly the kind of tempest in a teacup that could keep a congressional committee – and some bible-thumping politician running for reelection – busy for an entire year.

4 thoughts on “One sperm donor = 150 sons and daughters

    • god says:

      What I figure happened – or happens – is that the greedy buggers who run the clinic every now and then find a donor who delivers such copious quantities of profitable material they just divvy it up and keep selling it until they finally run out.

      Having paid the donor just a couple of times.

      • Mary Lupin says:

        Yes possible, but from the women I know that choose donors (rather than husbands) they have a “list” in their head that matches cultural ideals. They want things like “regular features”, moderately high IQ, as well as things like a clean genetic health history. So some donors get chosen far more than others because they fit the cultural norm for desirability.

  1. Cures Riches says:

    More sinister and demented is spirit channel inbreeding wherein the daemonic emperor takes advantage of the spirit channel denial for dollars mentality of his creation by giving pregnancies to channels of his creation that monitor and harass “good” persons that would complain of such activities. Among channels it’s said that Berlusconi creates channels that possess 1/3 of all human pregnancies without any tracing of “good” whatsoever. Spirit Anarchy is one of those exponentially large “can’t see forest for the trees” problems. If your a humanist that thinks we’re very smart than your probably not going to complain that our spiritual experience is crap compared to the cell-phone WiFi mechanical reliability.

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