Vo Huu Nhan was in his vegetable boat in the floating markets of the Mekong Delta when his phone rang. The caller from the United States had stunning news — a DNA database had linked him with a Vietnam vet thought to be his father.
Nhan, 46, had known his father was an American soldier named Bob, but little else.
“I was crying,” Nhan recalled. “I had lost my father for 40 years, and now I finally had gotten together with him.”
The journey toward their reconciliation has not been easy. News of the DNA match set in motion a chain of events involving two families 8,700 miles apart that is still unfolding and has been complicated by the illness of the veteran, Robert Thedford Jr., a retired deputy sheriff in Texas.
When the last American military personnel fled Saigon on April 29 and 30, 1975, they left behind a country scarred by war, a people uncertain about their future and thousands of their own children.
These children — some half-black, some half-white — came from liaisons with bar girls, “hooch” maids, laundry workers and the laborers who filled sandbags to protect American bases.
They are approaching middle age with stories as complicated as the two countries that gave them life. Growing up with the face of the enemy, they were spat on, ridiculed, beaten…They were called “bui doi,” which means “the dust of life.”
Forty years later, hundreds remain in Vietnam, too poor or without proof to qualify for the program created by the Amerasian Homecoming Act of 1987 that resettles the children of American soldiers in the United States.
Now, an Amerasian group has launched a last-chance effort to reunite fathers and children with a new DNA database on a family heritage website. Those left behind have scant information about their GI dads. DNA matches are their only hope.
RTFA for detail, anecdotes – even some good news. I’m not surprised the grunt side of the war is doing something to sort out what our nation “accomplished” in Southeast Asia.
I don’t expect today’s crew in Congress to do a damned thing?
5 thoughts on “40 years after fall of Saigon, the children of our soldiers are still there”
My husband is one of these children. However, his Vietnamese mother made it to America safely with his soldier father, who couldn’t bare to leave his love behind. He had a chance to flee, but turned around at the helicopter and went to find her. They left Vietnam on April 22nd, Earth Day
“The fall of Saigon: How Vietnam ended up in the US orbit / Analysis: 40 years after war, Asian ‘tiger’ draws close to old adversary with geopolitical, cultural and economic ties” http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2015/4/29/vietnam-in-us-orbit.html
I believe that my husband is quite possibly the father of the boy on the left. We are trying to find the young man, who would now be in his mid-forties.
Photo captioned “Amerasian boys hanging out in Ho Chi Minh City, 1988.” http://www.asylumist.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Amerasian.jpg Illustration for “Amerasian Homecoming Act – 25 Years Later” by Jason Dzubow on January 29, 2013 http://www.asylumist.com/2013/01/29/amerasian-homecoming-act-25-years-later/ contact info for Dzubow on that page. Note also comment by photographer Robert Mulder February 8, 2015 “This photo is taken from my wesite without my permission…” contact info for Mulder @ http://robertmulder.photographers.com/ (maybe outdated) see also Twitter @ https://twitter.com/rmmphoto Website @ http://www.robertmulder.nl/about/ also https://www.linkedin.com/pub/robert-mulder/11/516/300?trk=pub-pbmap
Sherrif Thedford passed away in the month following this story.